There’s something magical about having sex when you can’t see. I love blindfolded sex because it forces me to focus on my other senses. My sense of touch comes to life when my sense of sight is deprived. That’s a big part of what makes it so hot and it’s why I go crazy when my boyfriend blindfolds me.
Another part that excites me is never knowing where I’m going to be touched next and how. Is that going to be a kiss on my chest or a dick in my mouth? Will it be a wet or a dry touch? When you can’t see, you can’t predict what’s about to happen.
The unknown is a powerful aphrodisiac for most people.
No matter what people say, no matter how much they deny it, danger and uncertainty are huge turn-ons for most of us. New relationships, new sex partners, and new kinks are all enticing because we don’t know what’s going to happen.
“Is the other person really into me or is it all in my head?” we wonder as we scroll through their texts looking for hidden messages that might give them away. People love to want what they think they can’t have. They love whatever is off-limits and beyond their reach.
My mind goes crazy sometimes. I’ve had a lot of fantasies I’d be afraid to admit to the people close to me. You know, friends, family, coworkers. That’s part of why this blog is so awesome. I can spill the beans about all the twisted thoughts that pop into my head unannounced (but they’re always welcome).
In the AMA, a reader asked me what I think about gloryholes, so here goes nothing.
I hope you’re ready to see my dark side. Can you handle it?