Men and women like different things during sex most of the time. By no means does this include everybody, but women usually like intangible stuff during sex, like mood, connection, setting, and music, while men usually enjoy specific activities.
Let me explain.
I’ve dated a guy who basically worshiped my butt. My butt!
He paid an incredible amount of attention to my ass. Okay, I’ll just come out with it, I’m currently dating a guy who absolutely loves my ass. We engage in various types of anal play all the time. We both love and enjoy it.
But, as a bisexual woman, I’ve also dated women. Never in all of my years have I ever thought about putting my tongue in another woman’s butthole. I’m sure there are women out there who do it with one another all the time.
Two of my friends are lesbians and they filled me in on their secret: they eat each other’s booties all the time.
But it’s not something I would’ve ever thought to do with a woman.
And it’s not just me. I’ve never had a woman ask me for that or ask to do that to me. But I’ve had plenty of men ask for that, let me tell you.
If you granted a woman one sexual wish, what she secretly wants in the bedroom, she’ll probably ask for tender touching and deep connection, staring into one another’s eyes. She might ask for something practical, like a more equal division of household chores.
If granted the same wish, most men will ask to see your butthole, smell your crotch, and squirt their splooge all over a highly specific body part of yours when they’re done.
It doesn’t mean that men are bad.
It doesn’t mean they’re disgusting.
It doesn’t mean they’re gross pigs who should be avoided.
It means they’re human.
See, once you understand what men are thinking when they ask to cum on your tits or eat your ass out like groceries, it’s pretty freaking adorable.
There are more reasons men love nasty sex and men might want nasty sex for a combination of these reasons, but here are the five most common I’ve encountered.